My Grey Fountain of Wisdom!

On Women’s Day I write about what we are always so conscious of. Our looks, spending hours grooming and preening our selves. Looking at the mirror and appreciating our efforts and waiting for compliments.
Now as I slowly move towards the forty year mark a lot of things are changing.
How I see myself and how I have become more content with my image, body and the obvious and not so obvious changes that are taking place. How I am more accepting of the flaws or imperfections as I see them.
But I do not see a similar acceptance from most ladies; both younger and older than me. The one thing they just refuse to agree with and tell me that I am too young to ‘give up’!
What I ask am I giving up?

A streak of white on the extreme right!

I have being more outgoing, friendly, go getter and generally an achiever much more now than in my youth.
The reason so many, no most of them say I am giving up is due to my “Grey Fountain”
The one thing that has heads turning and women and men alike are my long, rebounded perfectly straight hair.
The questions that follow are about the visible strands of grey hair in my long hip-length hair.
I leave my hair open quite often and I have had even strangers’ comment or tell me that I should color it or that I need to make time to get my “color touch-up”.
Perfectly unknown strangers, helpful assistants, extremely distant and not so distant relatives, well meaning wives of colleagues and some of my close friends, all have advised me to give up on the crazy idea to not coloring my grey hair and get back to normal.
Some of my favorite ones are……..
Why would you want to look old?
It is just color and not chemical dye!
It is so easy and simple to do!
You can choose a different shade every time you color.
Just let the beautician take care of it while you get a pedicure… easy and you are multi-tasking.
And the best one is – Are you trying to get rid of your husband?
No my dear well-wishers, I am not trying to get rid of my husband 😉 and I am not going crazy!
It is a decision I do not even remember taking and yes my family and those who matter are fine by it. (Hubby too)

Streaks of grey.

Is grey hair really so bad?
Is it worse than the wrinkles?
Is it worse than the hanging folds and shaking bones than come with it?
Is showing your age really so bad?
I come across ladies and gentlemen as old as 80 and having a perfect head of jet black hair.
It is really possible that age forgot your head but got your brains?
You cannot walk straight but got the hair of a 20 year old?
Your hearing and sight are going to the dogs but your hair is all silky and shiny?
Of course, I am perfectly fine with people who color and I do not go around telling people that they should stop coloring their hair.
I am fine with whatever personal choice they make, it is theirs to make.
All I request my well wishers are to rest their case and let me enjoy the visible grey in my hair ………
My fountain of wisdom……..
Doop Mein Baal Safed Nahin Kiye Maine” (I did not grey my hair in the sun)
Do you have any such choice that makes your near and dear ones question your decision?

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